Posted by Gary McGath
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The essay “Surround Yourself With Those Who Are Admirable, and Distance Yourself From Those Who Aren’t,” by Aaron Ross Powell, has me feeling ambivalent. Each time he links to it on Bluesky (and he’s linked to it a lot), I want to say something, but I couldn’t put my concern in a few words. It isn’t obviously wrong, but its focus could encourage readers to cut themselves off from all who disagree with them. In general, I should add, his newsletter is definitely worth reading, and even this piece helped me to clarify my thinking.
The biggest problem in the United States today isn’t bigotry but tribalism. Bigotry is a form of tribalism, of course, but another form is more rampant these days. Disagreement on anything makes someone an enemy. Not just an enemy, but a “Nazi,” a “racist,” a “fascist.” Or a “woke” “traitor.” Such phony accusations come from both left and right, but they’ve become common currency on the left. A certain person on the Boskone program staff tried to win an argument by claiming I’d be deemed racist if I didn’t shut up, even though she admitted that the accusation would be false. A comment on one of my posts in this blog waved vague insinuations of racism at me. The commenter didn’t respond to my request for clarification. In this cultural environment, avoiding the company of “bad” people can easily turn into denouncing anyone who disagrees.
We’re urged from childhood to avoid bad company, and it’s wise advice. Having dishonest or violent people for friends is a bad influence. But Powell’s essay is more about people with bad ideas, as this excerpt shows:
Further complicating matters is the growing belief that disassociation is censorship, that it’s cancel culture to tell someone you wont associate with them anymore, not give them a platform, not make them part of your intellectual or emotional life. It’s not freedom of association you’re exercising, this narrative suggests, but instead opposition to freedom of expression. That’s, of course, nonsense. … It’s why so many people who claim to be the targets of cancel culture are instead just upset that others are criticizing them.
Certainly I find it more comfortable to associate with people who hold the right ideas, and my choice isn’t censorship. Since I think that the ideas I hold are the right ones, in practice that means associating with people who agree with me. But it isn’t good to get too comfortable. If I never hear people argue for their “wrong” ideas, I’m not in a good position to decide if they’re wrong. I know about them only second-hand, perhaps in a distorted form.
What’s more important is how people argue for their ideas. If they give honest reasons, which they consider valid, they may be worth a listen. I’ll learn how better to argue against their views, and it’s possible I’ll discover I’m wrong. If they use lies, insults, and distortions, they aren’t worth spending time on, even if they agree with me. If they spew nonsense with overbearing certainty, they’re just annoying and aren’t worth more of my time than I can help.
Some positions are inherently contemptible. Can there even be an honest Nazi or Communist in a country with free discourse? I wouldn’t want to spend time with someone who cheers the January 6 riot or the October 7 massacre, but it’s a bad idea to wall off all ideas that seem offensive.
Some people are crazy in certain areas but otherwise have a lot to offer. It may be possible to stay clear of their offensive ideas and keep them as friends. At the same time, unchecked irrationality tends to spread, so be careful.
Some traits are more important than others in judging a person. Here’s a rough hierarchy, starting with the worst:
- • Violent and vicious people. Being around them could put you, your friends, or your family at risk.
- • Dishonest people. I’m not talking just about those who cheat people, but ones who knowingly make false claims. People who spew made-up accusations are poison.
- • People who are unnecessarily nasty. This includes run-of-the-mill bigots, ones who don’t join the Klan but are persistently hostile to certain categories of people.
- • Obsessively irrational people. An “idĂ©e fixe” in an otherwise normal person can lead to trouble.
- • Sloppy thinkers. That describes a lot of people.
- • People with terrible social skills. That describes me.
My point is that there’s a difference between a person with bad ideas and a bad person. Powell’s insistence that dissociation is not censorship or cancel culture, while certainly a true point, is an odd one to make when talking about people’s character. Cancel culture exists. An individual cutting off a former friend doesn’t rise to that level, and I haven’t heard any claims that it does. A club expelling or censuring a member for deviant opinions, or a convention kicking out a participant for unnamed violations of an absurdly broad rule, can count as cancel culture. An employer making hiring decisions based on the applicant’s ideology is still worse. But claiming anyone calls ending a friendship “censorship” is a straw man argument.
In today’s intellectual climate, it’s easy to drift from the sound advice “Don’t associate with bad people” to “Don’t associate with people outside your bubble of ideas.” I’m afraid that Powell’s article encourages that drift, even if it’s not what he intended.
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